My l0velY Car - Part 1

Guys, sorry for keep you waiting... Until now only i get prepare to update my blog about this incident.

This, is my lovely car...


Although it's still not yet get repair and maybe it cannot be exactly the same as before but i think...

Well, early in the morning of every working day, i drive to work with this car. A car that i used to drive for approximately 5 years already. I like the design of that car, although it's quite 'old' already, which is from the year of production in 1996.

For me, having a car to be part of my way to go to work is considered one of the most wonderful thing in the world, to avoid any difficulties in taking public transport, whereby i should feel grateful of, at least i think like that.

Never have a thought that this will gonna happen to me before, and now, it did.

Nothing much i can say about how huge is this incident impact on me, but yet i know, it changed my lifestyle, affect lots on me and more or less, the burden~~

These pictures are some of the shooting that taken on that day, on the 7th of March, where the 'memorable' incident that involved my car...






Terrible right?!!!!!





There are some more....


And the following pictures are my car....






Totally Horrible!!!!





Still not clear of what is exactly happened on that day?
Be patient, the part 2 with video clip will be publish soon.

Hmm...Maybe now you will gonna ask me about what i felt at that moment, but i can ensure u that, there are no words can be used to explain what i am feeling at that time. I would really hope that this is really a dream that really will appears only in the dream and it would not become real in reality.

I do understand that sometimes not everything will be exactly the same that what you imagine or expect, but uncertainty in facing some real facts really makes someone suffer, physically or even mentally.

Anyhow, it will still be my lovely car ever, no matter how it changes.

At last, thanks for everyone that concern about me and my car after the incident happened.
Really appreciate it much!!
I will be tough enough to cope with all these uncertainty in whatsoever bad things that comes toward me.
And i don't mind that if you guys wanna support me financially, i will be very grateful de..
hehe~~~ :p

Anyway, No worries and thanks again~~~



P/S: Remember, no matter what circumstances that you will face in the future, just be brave enough to overcome it and continue to move forward. Because you just need to understand one simple statement, which is - the life still must go on.

5th of March

Today can be considered a special day..
A date that brings meaningful day to my beloved mum which she was born.
Of course, on a such memorable day like this, we won't forget to celebrate it.

This year will be a bit different but anyway, the dinner will be absolutely focus on the main dish, 'mian xian'. Haha...actually this 'character' will appear almost every time whenever there is any of us celebrating the DOB. Furthermore, it brings a good meaning here...isn't it?

Well, early in the morning i already planned to brings my mum to go some where else to have a movie. Relax a bit right? since lots of time spend staying in the house. It's good to go out sometime to take some fresh air. After taking our breakfast in the morning outside...of course i back home to check the showing time of movies online.

There are few choices for us to make since that time really hv lots of movies. This is because it's just the passed the second week of CNY, if not mistaken. We made a final decision, which is the 72 tenants, out of the hot summer day, since the show time become our main considering criterion. haha...and my mum also wanna watch this CNY movie which she has missed it during CNY period.

Popcorn become our snack when we were watching that movie in cinema. Since my mum long time already not taste it...that is why i chose popcorn. ^^
Anyway, it's a TGV located at Cheras Selatan Jusco. No bad 'having' the movie here!
Bringing my mum to a movie for her special day like this, i hope that it will be a memorable day for her. And most important, i do hope that she is happy with it and wishes her healthy always...



The tickets we bought..^^



To my l0vEly MUM,

hAppY bIttHday t0 y0u~~~

A NightMare

wow....it is early in the morning...
really cannot open my eyes...
because having mentally harassment by something else..

the time is 8.30am sharp...
the way walking to the police station is seen like very long distance to go.
the driver already reach there before me...
so coincidentally, the sarjan that incharge me just come out from the room when i just approach the door..

both of us go inside, sit on a chair and start the conversation..
first, the sarjan ask that driver to give a brief explanation of what is happening at that time..
when she spoke something that i think is wrong, i try to interrupt and tell the exactly incident but that is stopped by the sarjan...he say let that driver finish it first wo..later is my turn to tell..
since he say so...then is ok la...

BUT...when is my turn to speak out...after one or two sentences that i spoke, another sarjan come and say that he got something to point out...
and, this is really a badly conversion that i ever heard before when i agreed him to do so...
he speak out a lot....he say this and that...yes, he got his point and his own thinking and opinions...but the most important thing is the logical thinking...if lack of this thing...no matter how hardworking you are...or how many things u knw...it is a waste of being a man...

i just wondering at that time....why those policeman is speaking on behalf for that driver but not for me?so funny when i see that sarjan become angry and increase his voice volume when i argue that the actual facts are make sense....seen i hv the logic to tell him...but the reality is cruel...
hard to c a person to accept other's opinion although they know they are wrong....

i just cannot accept when the police officer said that no matter what reason...u r wrong when u hit someone's car from the back eventhough it's just a slightly damage..the most important is i m on my own lane, if i speed fast in my lane also considered wrong den i got ntg to say ady...and the point here is not the speed....so that police officer not really analyze the situation from different perspective...

i was getting shooted and shooted last for few minutes with this...(which i think already is a ugutan ady...) that officer say...i challege u jangan bayar saman dan kami akan membawa kes ini sama-sama ke mahkamah...
this sentence keep on repeating by him with some bad body language with high volume of voice..
if i m third parties...i sure will think that the person who get scolding is the one who made some big trouble!! but the fact is not really reflect what is actually happenning, sometimes..

then i know he is 'big' me in the sense that he keep on saying with some other additional information and indicates will delay the date of getting my car back...if not mistaken, that day he say so..."aku bagi saman kat awak, awak jangan bayar..." and later continue by this... "sekarang saya nak kamu segera panggil workshop kamu hantar balik ke sini, kami akan tarik dan hantar ke puspakom sana untuk diperiksa...masa itu semuanya akan kita tahu...kereta kamu akan ditahan untuk satu tempoh yang panjang".... really sufering when hear lots of this....psycho again...

i did speak out why they just keep on shooting at me but not the one who change the lane...but that person still keep on saying he is right because he have lots of experience ady as he work for that job for around 20 years wo..."kamu yang langgar balakang, kamu yang salah, jangan cakap banyak lagi"..."kalau kes itu bawa ke mahkamah...masa yang diambil akan sangat panjang...kereta kamu tak boleh dihantar untuk diperbaiki sehingga selesai kes ini..ada kes yang tangguh 3 bulan...masa panjang ni kos untuk mahkamah pula banyak dan semuany akan dibayar oleh kamu berdua... "

Akta Pengangkutan Jalan 1987 become another 'weapon' here...that time i really feel swt lor..
that police officer throw that book in front of me and said that he din cheat me..based on wat wat section but he cant speak out what is that section...and most important is the attitude is not really good, is damn bad!!!

"kes ini sangat senang saja....claim insuran saja...ini kes civil, sebab tak ada orang mati dalam kemalangan ini..."

hopeless...that what i think of at that time...when they all say those things to psycho me..

but i think of the pic that i print it out. i bring in and let one of the officer there to have a look on it with my explaination...i think he understand of what i m trying to say...i also think that he know what is happenning....innocence or not....he knows...
he approach that driver and speak to her personally...i duno what he is talking to her...but i do hope there is a exception for all of these..

at last, the thing settle by the car which bang by that driver is claim under my car insurance....but her car will claim under her car insurance company...and i have to sign before i leave...after i discuss with her husband....1 thing i say to him which means a lot to me...both of us also dun wan to get involved in an accident, i m victim, your wife too...but based on this situation, police traffic judge me wrong...but when u c these pictures + that day u c the position of both cars...u faham,i faham...the most i can do is i claim my own insurance...
(act i got a bit regret now for what i have suggested at that time...)
the people there not polite also...interrupt our conversation by saying....jangan bazir masa kami la...cakap banyak lagi...
i hate all these...
wan me to bear all the losses...not fair if like this..
if that time i m not get scared by u guys...i think this case not yet close file...

last part before i go, about the fine..i need to sign before i go...i not really wan to sign...some more my dad also say like that...because i gonna wan to leave this place as fast as i can...but suddenly the people at the back there shout at me and scold me like hell!
i hate those people always use the reason that is not really considered a good reason to blame people....hey...it is the responsibilities of a police traffic to handle the accident case ....dun say till looks like i m the one who trouble u guys to handle a lots of the cases...u think that just only u busy ah...everyone also busy with their works, OK?!...
AGAIN!! It is ur RESPONSIBILITY!
just resign if u cant bear the working shift...dun let me think that u got time to scold people, but no time to do a lots of works as u SAID!

at the end, how muc i need to pay, any compound or wat...a people say thing will different if my name is last by bin wat hassan or wat...at tat time i really duno wat and how to respond...just can say "haha" and laugh like foolish only...

about my feeling at tat time...i think u guys can feel it de right? haizz...

i hope i can wake up earlier from dreaming.....because tis dream is really that...
Such a scary NightMare!!!



P/s: if someone suddenly turn in ur lane and u cant avoid that car at that time...u better break emergency...let the car at ur back bang u, better than u bang the car infront of u!

"Judgement Day"

after a week that i have settle down myself to accept all the unexpected incident which had happened to me on last week,i think i have to accept on what is really should not end like this...
yes, it is just a week ago, last Saturday, a "judgement day"...

18th of July, around 10am...
i go to that place early in the morning to have a clear statement about the accident to get further understanding on what is happening during the time when that incident was happened.
anyway, i think that is ok because there is a possibility that the person at that place want to get further details information from me to know the incident better...

and for sure, i get assistance from the "call man" to send me to that place. one funny thing i wan to mention at here is about this guy...
i really duno y he behave like that...swt lor, he want me to pay for his fuel, although that is his company car.... some more i m his customer leh...how can he do like that... after that i only know y he wan me to pay for it....gf...swt"

back to the current situation...

when i reach the police station with that person which bring to meet again that sarjan at that time...i just wondering why i m coming back for the second time... although the day before i ady notice that this maybe is one of the way he persuade me to follow wat he wan me to admit...

anyway...without thinking too much of noncense....i just continue to have what i suppose to feel...(one thing for sure is, deep in my heart, i think the sarjan call me back definately not a good new)...

Sound like i m a bit down and moody but the facts tell me that it is what gonna happen to me as what the worst thing which i really think before...really swt.....it's happen to me!!!

haiz...

when i just sit in front of that sarjan, with the callman beside....he start to say to that callman (but i think actually he spoke so is wan to direct it to me), y u lie to me ?! that day when u do reporting u din even show me the picture of the car from back... omg, unexpected of the first starting conversation from him...but when he say so...i ady can guess what will gonna happen soon...

after that....the callman try to explain and of course, we denied it strongly because actually on the day we went for reporting, we really did show almost all the picture that captured by the callman...but just on the half way on the showing process....he spoke out:"it is ithe fault of that car which cross against ur road...." (one thing wan to mention here is, when he say so on that day, we just think ok ady...thought that this case will settle ASAP as the sarjan also said like that, this means he also agree with us whereby that driver had made a mistake)...

the callman den show back all the photo that he captured to that sarjan...and, the result is, yes we do have pictures that took at the back of the cars which can c the damage on both of the car, and the sarjan just say...
due to the damage at the back, it is not that driver fault, but is my fault!!
some more one thing that does not make sense here is about what he told me ....he said, that driver bang the car in front of her because i bang her car first, but the thing is from the picture u can c that her car direction is just seen like cut to my lane...but wat make me feel ridiculous and funny is the sarjan said...actually her car stop ady, but i speed and bang her car until her car 'push' to that position..(u guys can refer back to my previous blog named as ~Darkness Day~, there are some photo there)..so funny right?

that time i really wan to give a big clap to the sarjan lor...wt...something like this also can say directly to me wo...sure i angry la...
and the most important thing that he mention is...until today i still remember, the driver of the first car which hit by the black car is work as doctor, and the driver of this black car is work as wat lecturer wo...and he mention many in front of me..." seorang daripada mereka kerja sebagai doktor, seorang lagi ialah 'pensyarah'(did i spell wrong?), mereka tak akan tipu punya!" ...
this sentence really make me angry lor...
den i directly shoot him back..."ok, is that u means those who work as fisherman or those people who have lower salary will cheat u?"...actually the police have double meaning here....when he say so, he is starring at me whereby he is giving a sign that i cheated him wo...
really dissappointed!! so...

after a few of arguement with my logic explaination of the car crashing then the sarjan actually know what is really happening nad the fact really not on his side...then, he surrender in such a way he keep silent for a while and later provide a suggestion to the callman and me..that is, how about both of the driver come backto settle it... that time i really think that it is good suggestion...but, this is just the beginning only....~A Nightmare~ is just started!

after some arguement on deciding which day to meet up (because sarjan said it's better on monday, but i do have a test on that day, that y i reject twice or more...den only he get it, swt")..to choose a day...however, sarjan ask me to wait for his call and confirm with me later..

then, i went back and told my parents about this....and they really think that y the sarjan will judge like that...hey! based on the phot, it 's very obvious ady la,ok? dun talk about 3 year old kids la, those who got license and know how to drive also knew that which car is inocense la...
ligical thinking ma...haiz...almost av1 shd have logic right?

moody feel surrounding me after i reach home....not thinking much after that...
around 10pm only that sarjan confirm me. but just through msg, not giving a call.. really action speak louder than words! anyway...i m still ok but my mum ask me to get prepared....because they will argue many things with me...my dad say it's better to calm down and settle the thing, needless to shout or speak loudly to point out something...
the date is tomorrow to settle the thing by meeting up with that driver, and my "Nightmare" is just begins to START....


This is so called "Judgement Day"...but end out with... no result!!

P/s: at that time i really hope that there is a justice bao to come out and help those people to handle the 'difficult' case which cannot handle in a good way...

DarkNess DaY~

There is some time i din update my blog already....
thinking of going to update it on this few days during weekend...
just wondering on what to write on my blog...
but suddenly something happened to me..
unfortunately...i have this "DarkNess DaY" to share with u guys...
really sad when recall back all these things....

2 days ago, which is fall on wednesday, 15th of july...
as usual,after the last lecture class, i m driving my car...and on the way back to my house from UTAR...
my darkness day start when i almost reach my house, a distance from the T-junction of the traffic light which is in front of a Police Station.
i am on the left lane (there is just left and right lane on that road)...
and i m driving no fast yet on my own direction (it is a straight road)..

I planned to slow down after passed by another traffic light which is green and stopped to speed up (not yet brake due to the speed of car and just let it continue to move on). That time i saw the traffic light in front of the police station is still green as i passed by the traffic light i mentioned just now...( want to justify here is: there is 2 traffic light here which is the one in front of the police station and another one is before that)

since there is still a distance to go on... that is why i din speed because i know it will turn red when i almost reach that traffic light...
so, when my car move on...
and the traffic light turned red (as what i expected)...
a car suddenly don't know from where (it is right lane,just want to express my scary moment) without my notice to that car...that car turn out to the right position of my car...
and first i not sempat to brake at that moment and my car hit that car's left side bumper...

of course...for any human being..
such a sudden incident will make the driver get shocked and the natural response is to keep your car to left hand side to reduce the damage of car crashing....
that is why i keep my car left to minimize the damage....the both rims on left hand side of my car then shifted with the "road stone" (not really know how to call it, the "road stone" here means that almost very road in KL is beautify by it, perhaps shd call divider?). At that time, i notice my car did rub with the "road stone"...

this is the photo of "kesan geseran" on the "road stone":

my car position at that time:

these are the conditions of my left hand side tyres:
left front
left back

After i tried to keep the sterling left and shifted with the "road stone" after the first hit on that car's left bumper....(i feel a bit weird that time, i think the car is not really under control but still manage to turn the sterling to keep left)

Then the second crash is just begin... my right hand side tyre hit on the left hand side of that car since that car was getting nearer and nearer till i got no place to run away from the second crash...that car then hit another car in front of it too...

time is around 5.30pm to 5.45pm, not exactly know the actual time that the accident happened because at that i i already get surprised, shocked and stunted to what had already happened to me and my car...

Below are some of the pictures that i took...


after that, the first thing that comes to my mind after the car crash is make a call to get assistance such as insurance agent and etc. then only i start to take photo besides of getting related info from those cars' drivers.

i remember a moment that the driver of this car really not polite at all whereby there is an argument between us. That driver argued about she is on her lane whereby she din even move to my lane because she is on her own lane. Logically, based to the pictures i provided... which car is on the correct lane...which car did wrong...which driver want to have excuse...no way!! For brilliant people like u guys, sure can differentiate it and come to a conclusion right?

another funny experience i want to share with u guys is the owner of that car...(owner and driver not the same people)
want to get the cash directly wo...funny right? if u c this situation, u sure know la...
not always the one that hit the car is the one whom not drive carefully...hope u understand this!!
don't think that get the money and can settle the thing when u r not clear about what was happened..and the most important thing is ur attitude...u think u r right and can get what u want when u increase ur voice volume ah? sorry lor...malaysia is a country that have its own laws.
"Not big voice big size de lor(direct translate)..."
as i know, smart people in this situation sure will stop the conversation to avoid any unhappy thing happen d...and only calm people will stay calm to refresh and restructure back what is actually happened based to what u see...

after that, i went to do report at police station. The details is P&C.
Looking at the damage status of my car, really feel damnn sad and down and....duno what to say ady...the time settle the report and back to home is at the night ady...
although din injured in this car accident, but feel some muscle pain at some part of my body...
and now wait for the judgement from the sarjan....and need to meet him again tomorrow..wish me good luck ba, guys...>_<



P/S: i just forget to take the photo of my car's damage after that car is removed. anyway, i think i should be glad that i m lucky enough to stay alive and continue sharing my blog at here with u all~

P/p/s: to all lovely drivers, do u all know about what is blind spot? don't just depends on side mirror when u want to cut to another lane...and don't even forget the signal light and be more carefull, ok?!~ this can minimize the probability to get involved in an accident if u all take notice on these!

You may leave some comments on this blog, perhaps...
Thanks....

first time @father day ~

yEs! is me...siusiukeong....haha...long time no one call me this nickname liao...
miss that much la...lol!

hmm...duno what to write wo...
long long time din write blog liao...
some more this is my first time to write at here...

hmm...ntg special today....
wake up early in the morning, just wan to rush my asg...haizz...don't know why these few days also feel like dying~
not really that kind of die la...just feel like moody lor...
hey, don't think too much...i know what u gonna to think about me..i m not really dare to kill myself just because Xxxx... whatever la...i m still enjoy my life..
single life is not really that fun d, when u notice and found that everyone around u, ur close frenz, they ady have their ideal partner staying beside them...enjoying couple's sweetness and happiness..
doubtless to say, sometime will feel a bit envy de lor...

anyway, i m still feeling ok la....not reallly desperate to get one d...
a person shd enjoy that is happen present and looking forward for future....
no matter wat happen?

aiya...speak lots of noncense here...
well, today is another boring day, as mentioned jz now..doing asg for the whole day lor...
pity la, but shd i glad of still being single?
if not,she sure will blame me of not accompany her go gai gai during weekend d..


ohya, today is father day wo..
want to know how i celebrate?
haha..
erm...no la...ntg special lor...
because yesterday night already celebrate lor....
at the purple cane restaurant lor...
the dishes there very nice de...
taste good with the wu long tea at there t00...
ahh...just a bit disappointed due to the pictures stuff...forget to captre some picture leh..
haiz..
saw someone there..but suan liao..
ntg to say at here...

back to this father day...
morning just go out to take breakfast at where ady ah?
ya, tmn tayton...jz bcz a broucher my sis saw and then go there lor..
fishball quite nice there...
then go to shopping lor..
erm...not that kind of big shopping mall la, jz that ....Tesco la...lolxx...
go there to c c, walk walk n enjoying free air-con la...
haha....
den sun bian buy something lor.....
daily use product such as shampoo la...
then back to home again n continue with the boring asg d...
hate that much!!!
spoiled my enjoying mood...
ei...
whole afternoon is like that, u know,the feel is not good...
some more,my parents drop me alone at home while they all continue to jusco later..
wuwu..TT
pity guy with a lonely heart..
lolxx..
sot liao..
then in the evening go to eat dinner lor..
but u guys sure cant think of where is it...
haha....
kfc...suprise?!
i think ok ok lor...my dad say want to eat fast food ma!
so mai go lor...
haiz....then that all for today blog la...
anyway, today is also considered a special day, for a man, for those who is being other people's daddy... wish them...


HAPPY FATHER DAY!!!




P/S: when i write this blog? of course is after the dinner la,then now back home and continue the asg again lor...hate hate hate....>_<