"fong fei kei"

What is ffk?
Define ffk in a good understanding sentences...
(to those who don't know what is ffk, i will explain as below... ffk = fong fei gei)
of course...for what i know, ffk is well defined by, a person that promised to come or attend some gathering or date at a specific place and a specific time but do not really show up at the right time and right place as decided and confirmed... (do correct me if u guys have a better definition on this)

FFK, in what situation someone will be said having this kind of behaviour??
Besides of fulfilling every elements that i define as above?
Yes, in some situation, your frenz will say that u like to ffk and whatever..
In the sense that they think that you cannot make it when promise them already..
Meanwhile you have some reasonable stuff to speak out.. and yet inform them about this...at that time, you may not considered as ffk...

So, that means?
Ok, let say, you promised to someone that you will gonna go for that gathering..
All the needed information is confirmed such as date, time and location..
but at last you did not show up your face at that specific time and location, then you will be said that you are ffk....even though you tell that you are not free at that time on last minute..
YES, this is true...
If something like this happened...that people really is ffk la..
But, that's different if you do have some acceptable and forgivable reason to support you and you do tell them earlier you can't go if and only if...

You have a presentation on tomorrow morning which is important and will affect your final mark in exam, but only you get to know the date to do presentation after you promised to go for gathering....
You have some projects or assignments to rush on and the due date is closer, you just helps your group members ....
You just get sick or not feeling well at that time...
You just know that your relative just pass away and so on...

but make sure you are honest and telling the truth....

And, plz make 1 thing clear at here...
If someone want to invite you to attend a gathering or yumcha and so on..
plz make sure the time and location...
If not, there will have some issues later...

Another situation is like this,
let say, your friend ask you to go yumcha on the next week..perhaps just inform the date and time or just the location only...which means you do not know all the needed information, but u already confirmed that you will go...

At here, u will considered ffk only if u can't make it when your friend inform you about the time and location with you earlier...since you promised. This means, today, your friend invited u to go yumcha which held on next week without the actual time or location, just the date only which means next wednesday...then when it comes to next week before wednesday, your friend inform u the time and location...or just on the day before the time they decide...then only you will be considered as ffk if you didn't go...for instance, your friend want yumcha at 10pm at somewhere and inform you at 9.30pm, your friend is ok here because they informed earlier b4 the actual yumcha time...(here just ignore the issue of your frenz just look like inform you last minute)

But, the case is different when they did not confirm you any time OR location..
Such as they say next Wednesday but did not inform you what time and where...
Or they tell you the time and date without specific yumcha at where..
Or tell you yumcha at somewhere but did not tell you what time..
So you are not considered ffk if,
they didn't even inform u where and when...
they didn't tell u the location..
they didn't tell u the time....

OR
they informed you late such that they inform you to yumcha at 10pm on wed and u wait till 10.30pm only u get informed to go where to yumcha....
u can choose not to go.....
AND you r NOT FFK!!!~
because they late to inform u.....

OR
they held a gathering at somewhere else but not yet confirm the time..
and till late at night around 10.30pm, then only informed to yumcha at this time..although you know will yumcha on that day... but last minutes inform people is not a good behavior, right?
preliminary planning and time management is better...
if both of the important information also not yet decide and inform u...
if late + no location... even worst, aren't it?
Then, if u choose not to go and say sorry yet still get blaming by people, and say u ffk...
should be speechless already...
because it is not a correct way of doing things right, is it correct?
and it should not end with blaming with each others if u still care with the friendship...

Properly a well-thinking people should understand more, perhaps..
So, when do anything on next time, please make sure to prepare everything before start to do it..
the result will totally different....

Every thing will have exception..even though is just gathering...
if u do read or have any idea on law before...for sure u will know about this right?

and, if u understand that people better, this won't happened...
or the person who always say people ffk, do you ever try to analyse the problem?
is it ur problem of helding an gathering, perhaps?
all of this have to redirect back to you...

different people got different perception, or different 'level' of thinking..
it's not a matter of attitude...it's a matter of Principe...


P/s: don't ever promise to somebody that ask for your confirmation on some date or gathering which do not have a clear thought on the meaning of the "ffk" as i have justify and define above.

Bad Time?

(some parts of my blog, this one faced some problems technically and that is why i just publish it today only. basically is around 80% of my writing gone. More or less, it is a issue from this blogger site, whereby deleted my writing when i press save now button, it faced some errors which stated the coding error due to the usage of color on my font...and thus, my writing gone, just like that...geramnya...that is why, i retype now after many days later, but will be shorten since the bad experience that i faced last time on this posting at here!)


24 hours = 1 day, this is the total hours for my this whole week's hours of sleeping.
hard to explain the feeling that i m having right now...

after rushed for plenty of assignmentSss....and the last one is the fyp, final year project for my bachelor degree...that is what make my life suffers a lot recently...and until today only update my blog!!

let's keep it short, simple and sexy...

this day i really feel frustrated with the line problem...due to the uploading time, it is really take lots of time to get successfully uploaded...
the things happened like this, i rush for my fyp last minute..
due to lots of stuff and works not yet completely done..
this is because mostly of the chapter or part i just finish around to 50% only..
this really make me crazy and rush like hell from a day before the due date on this day..
due to not enough sleeping time that i have for the night before, doubtless to say that my thinking or language on writing, structure of sentences will be a bit messy...
but, i din care anymore even though i always request for perfect when i do the job...

anyway, i m able to accomplish those stuff before the submission time which fall on 5pm..
i almost done my stuff at around 3.30pm and start to work on the table content...
this part really make me feel dizzy and a bit busy, perhaps i can say is "kelam-kabut"..
lol...
because i think i miss out something there...
however, that doesn't matter.... it carry a small volume of marks allocation only..
sorry la, it's time consuming already..
that's is why i let it go when i realize that fault after that...

come back to here, after i finish the table of content, at around 4pm... then i think the time is more than enough, 1 hour, sure la, right?
but the fact make me feel "geram", because the line (i not really know is what problem actually, but i guess is line problem la) is damn slow till make me failed to upload the file which is around 6MB after zipped. it's not my fault too since i already spent around 10minutes for the uploading process...really make me disappointed is when i see transfer rate is damn slow, not even moving too...
and the transfer packet is less than 2K at that time...after 10 minutes!!!

haizz...i grab my car key and directly rush to my car outside...
for sure, i have alternative way, that is go to CC (Cyber Cafe)...
after transfer my fyp file to my thumbdrive.

around 4.20pm i login and start upload my file..
swt again, it showed failed in email... 2 famous mail also like that...
wasted my another 10 minutes.
and now, i try my third email which is gmail...
i strongly recommend this...
it's fast and effiecient...
it shows the process and % when uploading a file....
i m happy when i successfully did at around 4.45pm and confirmed by my friend at PJ which helps me to submit the fyp...

then, i made a call to the faculty office and ask for the latest time to submit the fyp...
and the answer is 5.30pm...
this answer really make me feel glad and excited because before that i think is 5pm which is a bit rush for my fren to submit it on time.

at 5.25pm, my frenz, kenny msg me and confirmed to me, that he successfully hand up the fyp for me...

A Special Thanks to KENNY!!! ^^


P/s: don't even do ur thing at last minutes....eventhough i m not...so, just make sure u plan ur time wisely....and time management is really very vital process in order to accomplish ur stuff on schedule...pls take note on this la, guys!!

A NightMare

wow....it is early in the morning...
really cannot open my eyes...
because having mentally harassment by something else..

the time is 8.30am sharp...
the way walking to the police station is seen like very long distance to go.
the driver already reach there before me...
so coincidentally, the sarjan that incharge me just come out from the room when i just approach the door..

both of us go inside, sit on a chair and start the conversation..
first, the sarjan ask that driver to give a brief explanation of what is happening at that time..
when she spoke something that i think is wrong, i try to interrupt and tell the exactly incident but that is stopped by the sarjan...he say let that driver finish it first wo..later is my turn to tell..
since he say so...then is ok la...

BUT...when is my turn to speak out...after one or two sentences that i spoke, another sarjan come and say that he got something to point out...
and, this is really a badly conversion that i ever heard before when i agreed him to do so...
he speak out a lot....he say this and that...yes, he got his point and his own thinking and opinions...but the most important thing is the logical thinking...if lack of this thing...no matter how hardworking you are...or how many things u knw...it is a waste of being a man...

i just wondering at that time....why those policeman is speaking on behalf for that driver but not for me?so funny when i see that sarjan become angry and increase his voice volume when i argue that the actual facts are make sense....seen i hv the logic to tell him...but the reality is cruel...
hard to c a person to accept other's opinion although they know they are wrong....

i just cannot accept when the police officer said that no matter what reason...u r wrong when u hit someone's car from the back eventhough it's just a slightly damage..the most important is i m on my own lane, if i speed fast in my lane also considered wrong den i got ntg to say ady...and the point here is not the speed....so that police officer not really analyze the situation from different perspective...

i was getting shooted and shooted last for few minutes with this...(which i think already is a ugutan ady...) that officer say...i challege u jangan bayar saman dan kami akan membawa kes ini sama-sama ke mahkamah...
this sentence keep on repeating by him with some bad body language with high volume of voice..
if i m third parties...i sure will think that the person who get scolding is the one who made some big trouble!! but the fact is not really reflect what is actually happenning, sometimes..

then i know he is 'big' me in the sense that he keep on saying with some other additional information and indicates will delay the date of getting my car back...if not mistaken, that day he say so..."aku bagi saman kat awak, awak jangan bayar..." and later continue by this... "sekarang saya nak kamu segera panggil workshop kamu hantar balik ke sini, kami akan tarik dan hantar ke puspakom sana untuk diperiksa...masa itu semuanya akan kita tahu...kereta kamu akan ditahan untuk satu tempoh yang panjang".... really sufering when hear lots of this....psycho again...

i did speak out why they just keep on shooting at me but not the one who change the lane...but that person still keep on saying he is right because he have lots of experience ady as he work for that job for around 20 years wo..."kamu yang langgar balakang, kamu yang salah, jangan cakap banyak lagi"..."kalau kes itu bawa ke mahkamah...masa yang diambil akan sangat panjang...kereta kamu tak boleh dihantar untuk diperbaiki sehingga selesai kes ini..ada kes yang tangguh 3 bulan...masa panjang ni kos untuk mahkamah pula banyak dan semuany akan dibayar oleh kamu berdua... "

Akta Pengangkutan Jalan 1987 become another 'weapon' here...that time i really feel swt lor..
that police officer throw that book in front of me and said that he din cheat me..based on wat wat section but he cant speak out what is that section...and most important is the attitude is not really good, is damn bad!!!

"kes ini sangat senang saja....claim insuran saja...ini kes civil, sebab tak ada orang mati dalam kemalangan ini..."

hopeless...that what i think of at that time...when they all say those things to psycho me..

but i think of the pic that i print it out. i bring in and let one of the officer there to have a look on it with my explaination...i think he understand of what i m trying to say...i also think that he know what is happenning....innocence or not....he knows...
he approach that driver and speak to her personally...i duno what he is talking to her...but i do hope there is a exception for all of these..

at last, the thing settle by the car which bang by that driver is claim under my car insurance....but her car will claim under her car insurance company...and i have to sign before i leave...after i discuss with her husband....1 thing i say to him which means a lot to me...both of us also dun wan to get involved in an accident, i m victim, your wife too...but based on this situation, police traffic judge me wrong...but when u c these pictures + that day u c the position of both cars...u faham,i faham...the most i can do is i claim my own insurance...
(act i got a bit regret now for what i have suggested at that time...)
the people there not polite also...interrupt our conversation by saying....jangan bazir masa kami la...cakap banyak lagi...
i hate all these...
wan me to bear all the losses...not fair if like this..
if that time i m not get scared by u guys...i think this case not yet close file...

last part before i go, about the fine..i need to sign before i go...i not really wan to sign...some more my dad also say like that...because i gonna wan to leave this place as fast as i can...but suddenly the people at the back there shout at me and scold me like hell!
i hate those people always use the reason that is not really considered a good reason to blame people....hey...it is the responsibilities of a police traffic to handle the accident case ....dun say till looks like i m the one who trouble u guys to handle a lots of the cases...u think that just only u busy ah...everyone also busy with their works, OK?!...
AGAIN!! It is ur RESPONSIBILITY!
just resign if u cant bear the working shift...dun let me think that u got time to scold people, but no time to do a lots of works as u SAID!

at the end, how muc i need to pay, any compound or wat...a people say thing will different if my name is last by bin wat hassan or wat...at tat time i really duno wat and how to respond...just can say "haha" and laugh like foolish only...

about my feeling at tat time...i think u guys can feel it de right? haizz...

i hope i can wake up earlier from dreaming.....because tis dream is really that...
Such a scary NightMare!!!



P/s: if someone suddenly turn in ur lane and u cant avoid that car at that time...u better break emergency...let the car at ur back bang u, better than u bang the car infront of u!